A few days ago a friend asked me what the difference between a single mother and an unmarried woman for him because as a young man as there was no difference. Fortunately I can answer your question that I have the experience of being a single mother and the truth is not so difficult to realize because a single mother is very different in their thinking and seeing things, having a child makes you unconsciously put in the background, meaning that every decision you have to do the thinking first if your child will be happy or if you should, obviously there are mothers that their need to fill the space left the child’s father is much stronger than the love for his own son, in these cases there is a whole story behind it then we’ll talk.
A single woman without children is much more freedom as to choose a partner in question, she will choose her future partner to your requirements and desires, all focused on her, also do not have any pressure to choose, ie if at any time decide that the relationship does not work simply cease without problems, but in the case of single mothers can not do that because you would be affecting your child’s emotions and that this will somehow be fond of your new partner as a mother in that case you can not take lightly begin or end a relationship that involved not only your feelings but also those of your son and obviously no mother wants to see her son suffer.
As for the men who come to a single mother as 50% or more, are just wolves that want something easy, a single mother for them is like a wounded prey not going to get much resistance because of their vulnerability and need of affection, those bastards just want to take you to the nearest hotel, then you might think you are your partner but really have too many ornaments on your head, unfortunately I did not have those experiences and I can not give more details about it but if I had many friends who have suffered and I can say that somehow these guys are blinded by their need to fill that emptiness is so great that they see beyond what they they say, such is his blindness to not see the suffering of their children, they do not seem so bad that they are abused and often even do not believe when they say they are being abused by that unfortunate. It’s sad but I must say. As you can see much difference between a single woman and a single mother and could continue naming them but I think we have given a clear enough idea. Marilu Lopez Director of Social Network for Single Mothers